What kind of society would it be, if we were blind? How would
society work if humans lost the sight sense? Maybe we wouldn’t have to worry about appearances. One big issue
that our society faces is the “male gaze”. As John Berger tells us “men act” in
society (Pg.47), he makes his own path, he has come to define the aesthetics of
our society. It is the power of the male
scrutiny that makes women “play” an act to its viewer, the male surveyor. I believe throughout eras women have developed an “artificial instinct”
to be surveyed of herself to the surveyor. We live in a world of images. Most of our information enters through
our eyes, and we haven’t learned to “read” these images. The problem comes when
the images are used for a power structure to persuade and control a way of living.
The American culture, in my opinion, bases on consumerism, the idea that we can
buy happiness. We, women, are seduced visually, and as the surveyed need to please the
gaze.
One example I try to explain myself is Marilyn Monroe. She was
the most objectified female during the 50’s. She became to be a symbol, an
icon, an example to women to how they should look and act. Until this day she
still is. From her body to her personal life, girls become saturated with her
“made up” essence. What it intrigues me is that we all know she internally
suffered due to the male gaze, and despite her suffering we see her as a martyr
of beauty.
The alternate to male perspective is the female gaze. It is our
saying. We become the surveyor; it is the reclaiming of our representation in
the visuals or within ourselves. In the
video we saw in class, Bell Hooks mentioned that criticism is a tool to find
one self. She encourages critical thinking to not conform with what is given to
us. “ It is this critical practice that enables production of feminist film
theory...” (Pg.131).
Using the example of Marilyn Monroe, she became to be an
alternative to size zero models. Although I am still undecided weather she is a
healthy alternative, knowing that the male gaze brought her to us. There is a
thin line we can get caught up in the nonsense of typecasting. I feel we should
accept and love the fact that some of us are born (biologically) thicker than
other or thinner.
In my experience, my single mother was my surveyor. I grew up without a male model in my life, so
I came to experience the male gaze outside home. It was frightening at first
although I forced myself to find alternatives as a survival skill. In high
school I let photography speak for me, a silent expression I saw as
comforting. Years later I found myself
working with fashion photographers for my income. I got to see the manipulation
of computers on bodies, the ego trip and, why not, the art of wardrobe. It
opened my eyes to the industry and to our society of images. I still find
myself being seduced by the “exclusiveness” I can get working in the field.
Although I decide I want to be part of the oppositional gaze and give
alternatives to other women. I wont let my self-discovery (critical practice)
rest.
Berger, John. Ways of Seeing. Penguin, 1972. Print.
Hooks, Bell. "The Oppositional Gaze." Black Looks: race and
Hooks, Bell. "The Oppositional Gaze." Black Looks: race and
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ReplyDeleteWhile I was reading your post I agree that the media tells us how we should look and live because that is how they claim girls should be. I agree that it is an unfortunate issue but it makes me wonder that because this has been going on for so long how can we tell women that they do not need to be a consumer to appeal to the male gaze? Also is there a way to encourage others to be happy with themselves and not wish that they were a different body type? Although I do feel optimistic that a new positive view will come through for women as more people become involved in the media.
ReplyDeleteYes, i agree that media should scream out the alternatives for our females. I also think there's little progress on focusing on our mental health. We need to start as soon as the media is entering little girls' thoughts. More than consuming for OURselves or for the male gaze, I feel there has to be recognition, a reclamation and empowerment for our feelings, our bodies, our voices, and our decisions. Unfortunately not everyone has a healthy home, so having guides, mentors, or easy access to "those" alternatives is vital for change. Although it all comes to politics, and as our professor mentioned, we need more women in power.
ReplyDeleteI love your post! I agree wholeheartedly with the fact that typecasting is horrible and that it is not the solution. Although the media glorifies thinness, doing the complete opposite by glorifying curviness and putting down people who are naturally thin is not the answer either. I think using Marilyn Monroe is a lovely example because many idolize her. I think the only way forward is by promoting more messages that, "BE YOU. YOU'RE GOOD ENOUGH." So whether that means you're straight as a stick with no curves or if you have a little bit more love handle than the next person, it’s okay.
ReplyDeleteOh, yes, Marilyn. It's interesting, she was seriously the most sought after actress/woman in Hollywood during the late 50's/early 60's. She was blonde, curvy and she had a good pout. What's interesting is that she was smarter than what the media painted her to be (and she took advantage of that, because she was smart). I am sure they thought... how else could they portray her? Definitely not smart.. she was blonde.. and beautiful.. what else would she need to be? That may not be what they were thinking back then, but I feel like that it could be.
ReplyDeleteYes, I absolutely agree with the points you have had mentioned. When I look back at the classic movies women's body structure used to look "Normal" unlike nowadays, in the media mainstream we watch bunch of dying actress and models starving themselves to be "thin". Even if we look at the paintings in the John Berger's reading, we see paintings of women looking healthy, not bunch of thin disturbing models. It's depressing to see how media has influenced women nowadays to become someone who they are not. Women are most likely brain washed watching ads everywhere they go. For example, in the city there are always huge posters of different companies, where we see young, thin and sexy women on the posters. So, looking at these kind of images, who wouldn't want to be thin and sexy?
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with your post and you raise an excellent question. Marilyn Monroe is a great example of how society has changed with thinness and body image. The media needs to discourage images that put people down and make them feel too thin or too fat and spread more messages that can be read in a positive light.
ReplyDeleteI actually find the preference of Monroe to today's super-thin models a bit perplexing. Sure, she wasn't a toothpick; but her measurements:
ReplyDeleteHeight: 5 feet, 5½ inches
Weight: 118-140 pounds
Bust: 35-37 inches
Waist: 22-23 inches
Hips: 35-36 inches
Bra size: 36D
still reflect an hourglass and an overall shape and size that are still extremely rare and hard to pull off for most women. Despite her curves, Marylin still had a tiny waste and a large bust and butt. Considering also that her hair was naturally brown among other such cosmetic alterations, I really wonder if she's the beacon of natural full-bodied beauty nostalgia has seemed to paint her as.
You had me thinking,if Marilyn Monroe had kept her brown hair would she have achieved the same type of fame she had if she didn't change her hair color. Would she even be famous with brown hair or did she just adjusted to Hollywood standards on how a women should look like?
DeleteI am sorry that it was a frightening experience to have to learn what the male gaze was out there like that. Honestly, even with a father figure and a bigger brother, to this day it is well not frightening but at this point annoying. I was the tomboy and so when I developed pretty much overnight it was probably just as scary especially with it happening in school to me. I even recall a trip to the zoo and I had a leotard on and shorts and my brother told me I had to put on another shirt because a guy almost walked into a poll. My mother stood her ground and basically told him to shut up that it was not my fault it was that man's and I could do as i wish. I think having parents bring me up in the environment they did helped a lot. They made me see that I was a person early on and that no one could control me in any way. Keep on discovering yourself, we are ever-changing and never let anyone dictate who you should be or what you should look like. Individuality beats out collectivism!
ReplyDeleteNoah, I am not so sure that Marilyn fits the full-bodied "plus-size" model. I don't even think she ever was considered that. The woman was made into the ultimate sex symbol because she was so malleable! As you stated she was a brunette. She also came from an unstable home with a mentally ill mother. In and out of foster care and though she wasn't raped some of those who were to care for her attempted it. Mental illness tends to run in the family and having a life like she did it made her an easy target for molding.
Her measurements are in no way shape or form considered to be plus-size these days. However, having worked in the fashion industry....size CHANGES. What is a size 8 today wasn't a size 8 yesteryear and might not be an 8 in years to come. Just like how media outlets such as advertising tries to brainwash people so does the fashion industry. Today many compnaies still partake in "vanity-sizing", this is wear a size 8 is one set of measurements for one company but different for a different company. The more expensive designers the smaller the measurements and vice versa. It was created out of the fact that the United States has not standardization. this allowed some companies to in their own perversion make women feel better about themselves by making say a size 6 with larger measurements than other manufacturers. I personally do not feel this made things better because if said size 6 girl went to another store and tried on a size 6 and it was too tight she than would end up in a panic that she gained weight and start a crash diet! Unfortunately, the united states still does not have a standardized sizing in place and maybe if there was that could help the downfall of women with self loathing issues created by all these outlets, not just media!
However, a lot of us are so focused on the male gaze creating unhealthy women and young girls in the sense of body measurements, myself included. However, it is not just weight and size, the gaze has caused us to sit back for so long, to not educate ourselves enough, to not push to be better, to not question the status quo, to simply take what we can get when we want so much more and not fight for what we know we deserve. That is the true essense of the oppositional gaze. However, very few of us have this power. Generation after generation, the compounding of what we were told to be makes it hard to break free. However, education has allowed us to be able to see the truth, this class in essence has helped, or so I hope, us to realize our potential and not sit back and let history repeat itself, and if not for yourself than we should do it for our children!
In response to the other commentators, it does make me feel pretty split because I often idolize Marilyn Monroe myself, though seeing as she's been the mascot of "natural" beauty these days...it can be pretty jarring to know she wasn't the most 'natural' woman on the planet. Sure, she was thicker than most idolized women in her era and definitely today, but if it wasn't for that rare hour glass shape and her bleach locks, the way she did her make up to give her a more sultry appearance...would she have become the same recognizable symbol of beauty that she's revered as today? It makes you wonder.
ReplyDeleteI thoroughly enjoyed your example of Marilyn Monroe. I think as far as an example for the male and female gaze she is perfect, even today men and women seem to adore her! I particularly liked in your post how you went a little more personal and spoke about your childhood and being influenced by your mother, as a female who was raised by a single female parent I can agree wholeheartdly
ReplyDeleteGreat post! I especially love the title, which was what lead me to reading your post. Appearances would definitely not be important. But, we always find other ways to judge one another, if we're blind appearances won't come to play, but voices/sound will become the thing surveyed.
ReplyDeleteYou state that there are icons like Marlyn Monroe and icons like Nicole Richie in this society. Women either have to be super skinny or curvy on the top and bottom but small on the waist (like Marlyn).